What I Want

Why should someone else get to tell me what kind of person I am?

Why should someone else get to tell me what kind of man I like, what kind of job and career I like and want, what kind of food I want and like, what kind of movies I like, what kind of detergent, clothes, soap, lotions, make-up, etc. why should and does someone else get to tell me what I like and want?!

I went on two trips back in 2015, I never got to stay at any of the hotels I wanted to stay at.  I wanted to stay at The Best Western in New Orleans, not because of the brand, or the color of the rooms, or the name of the street I wanted to stay their because I had not yet been to that part of New Orleans.  The same thing happened in Key West, I wanted to stay at The Key Lime Inn because it had a front porch, and I had yet to be familiar with that part of Key West.  Also, I wanted to stay at The Watershed in NC.  I was talked out of that one in so many ways.

How is that someone else got to be appointed over my hopes, desires, and wishes for my life?!