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MAKE SURE THIS GETS TO A MAN WHO ISN’T AFRAID, AND IS WILLING TO TAKE ORDERS FROM A WOMAN, AND THAT WOMAN IS CHERITH GJESTLAND AND NO OTHER!

 

February 1, 2020

If this helps at all, let go of the stigma, of abuse, of sexual abuse, or of physical abuse, let go of the stigma that others will see you differently when they know the truth.

It’s a stigma.  It’s pretty significant within society of sexual abuse, and abuse.

Be responsible and take the responsibility of your actions.  If you’ve done nothing wrong, and were abused, that is not your fault, and you do not have to bear the burden of someone else’s actions.

Having to show the world, you hurt and abuse, does not make you ugly.  It takes that spotlight off of you, and places it upon the guilty party and person, in doing so, you’ll feel relief.  Probably for the first time.  Relief.  Whew!  Weight off your shoulders.

However, it is not a task, that is simply done.  It is work to do every day.  And, acknowledging that accepting that, being at peace with, yes, I need to do this work with myself every day, then there may or may not be a day when you forget that it is there, work to do.

At least then, your head won’t hurt so much.

To me, it looks like it is so painful to him, Matt, he is protecting himself, by layering himself within himself, and shielding himself, and trying to sort of hide to avoid the pain, that’s understandable.

It’s just pain.

Turn the spotlight on the abusers for a change.  Show them what they’ve done.