They are – really scared, ch attorney, movie might as a movie, should not be something new, it should be classic like it’s a wonderful life, or Lawrence of Arabia, or exodus, probably not fiddler on the roof as it’s too emotional, it’s a movie people should be able to wander in and out and not feel guilty since a movie is playing, ch is telling you all they will want to do – is finally start talking to each other! People shouldn’t feel pressured to watch the entire movie the purpose is not the movie it’s the experience of being able to be with each other, for the event that is the experience of a lifetime! 1940’s classic’s or 1960’s anything else will be too contemporary and too – emotional at such an event, it’s not a party, it’s a wedding, not quite the same thing ;($!?,